Pictured above: Jimmy; Age 11; Midfielder. |
That's what we believed anyway. Soccer is something we, as twelve year olds, needed to understand. Battle was how we were told to understand it. Combat. Serious stuff.
Stuff is serious in battle because there are grave repercussions for losing. In a war, everything is on the line because we understand war as a fight for your life. When soccer is a war; soccer is a fight for your life, which makes things difficult when soccer isn't your life. So, seeing as how I made a pretty terrible soldier, I quit.
If you need to get somewhere, you look at a map because you trust that piece of paper you're holding to be a pretty accurate representation of that somewhere you're going. But anyone who used Mapquest before five years ago can tell you that not all maps are created equally. Some maps are more accurate than others...for some people.
Poems are famous for using maps and getting the girl. I speak for all men when I tell you that we sometimes have trouble expressing our feelings. So we use a map to get the girl.
"I have heard the song of the blossoms and the old chant of the sea,
And seen strange lands from under the arched white sails of ships;
But the loveliest things of beauty God ever has showed to me
Are her voice, and her hair, and eyes, and the dear red curve of her lips."
The best maps we use are the maps that best explain the world. Some people think soccer is best explained as a war and some people think the girl they're smitten with is the loveliest thing God has shown them. Even if you disagree, the world is a complex place. What kind of meaning will you make?
I remember that moment well when you decided to quit soccer because you were told by the coach it was war! Mean Mom that I was, I required you to finish the season and tried to justify why a coach would use an analogy like that with kids. The coach sure got your attention! Unfortunately it was not the correct motivation to get you to excel in that sport! Funny how much that impacted us as I remember that moment like it happened last week.
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ReplyDeleteI love this post. I have spent a lot of time with the wrong things going on in my head. You explain things well.
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